Right, let’s talk entertaining – specifically, entertaining at home when you want to include everyone, from the grandkids to Great Aunt Mildred. I was chatting with my friend Amelie the other day, and she had some fantastic insights on how to make gatherings truly inclusive, especially when it comes to catering for our older relatives. It all started with the phrase ‘Game Night Grandeur’.
“It’s not about loud music and complicated cocktails, is it?” Amelie laughed, when I brought it up. “It’s about warmth, connection, and creating joyful moments that everyone can participate in.” She’s absolutely right. Forget the flashing lights and complicated menus – the goal is relaxed enjoyment.
Game Night: More Than Just Fun and Games
Amelie’s approach centres around the idea of adapting traditional fun. “Think board games and card games,” she suggested, “but with a twist to suit everyone’s abilities.” That’s where the “Game Night Grandeur” part came in. It’s not just playing games; it’s creating an atmosphere of shared laughter and friendly competition, regardless of age or ability.
We talked about specific games. Dominoes are a classic, visually clear, and don’t require a lot of dexterity. Simple card games like Rummy are also great, but the key, Amelie emphasized, is adaptation. “For Scrabble, use larger print tiles or even just write on plain paper with a thick marker! And don’t be afraid to bend the rules a little to make it easier, less taxing, and more enjoyable. It’s about having fun, not winning a tournament!”
She had another brilliant idea: pre-sorting the cards. “If someone struggles to hold a full hand of cards, have someone pre-sort them into manageable sets, maybe by suit or number. It removes a frustration point and allows them to focus on the game.”
Thinking about vision is essential, too. Good lighting is a must, and maybe even provide magnifying glasses for anyone who needs them. Large-print versions of games, where available, are worth the investment.
Beyond Games: Creating a Welcoming Atmosphere
Game night is just one aspect of inclusive entertaining. Amelie stressed the importance of creating a comfortable and accessible environment. “Mobility is key,” she said. “Ensure there are clear pathways, plenty of seating, and no tripping hazards. Consider the temperature – older people often feel the cold more, so have blankets or throws readily available.”
Dietary needs are also paramount. Ask about any dietary restrictions in advance, and be prepared to offer alternatives. “Simple, easy-to-eat food is best,” Amelie advised. “Think finger foods, soups, or a buffet where people can serve themselves.” Avoid anything that requires a lot of cutting or maneuvering.
She also highlighted sensory considerations. Reduce background noise as much as possible. Loud music or a blaring television can be overwhelming. “A quieter area where people can retreat if they feel overwhelmed is a great idea,” Amelie said. “Even just a separate room where they can have a conversation in peace.”
Using your Orangery
We also mused on how an orangery can really enhance the experience. Amelie, who is a keen gardener, spoke with passion here. “An orangery offers a light-filled, airy space that connects the indoors with the outdoors. It’s perfect for entertaining at any time of year.” It’s a naturally bright area (great for playing games), often has comfortable seating, and provides a calming view of the garden – ideal for creating a relaxed and welcoming atmosphere.
Of course, not everyone has an orangery, but the principles apply to any well-lit, comfortable space. Think natural light, comfortable seating, and easy access to refreshments.
Food for Thought
Finally, we discussed food. Amelie suggested offering a range of options, catering to different tastes and dietary needs. “Soft foods are often easier for older guests to eat. Think pureed soups, scrambled eggs, and well-cooked vegetables.” Remember to clearly label everything, especially if you have guests with allergies.
So, what did I take away from my conversation with Amelie? Entertaining with seniors in mind is about thoughtfulness and adaptation. It’s about creating an environment where everyone feels comfortable, included, and valued. It’s about simple pleasures, shared laughter, and making lasting memories. By adapting games, considering dietary needs, and creating an accessible and welcoming space, you can host events that are truly enjoyable for guests of all ages. Focus on what people can do, and celebrate the connections you make, and you can make entertaining with seniors a genuine pleasure. And who knows, you might even discover a hidden Scrabble champion in your family!
