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Right, let’s talk effortless elegance – dinner party style. I’ve always admired those who can throw together a sophisticated evening without breaking a sweat, so I sat down with Eloise, a queen of relaxed entertaining, to get her secrets. Her secret weapon? An orangery, and a knack for making transitions seamless. I’m always on the lookout for great Articles about home entertaining to share my discoveries.

“It’s all about the flow,” Eloise explained, settling into her favourite armchair. “I want my guests to feel like they’re on a gentle journey, not being herded from one room to another.”

The Garden Gathering:

Our discussion started with the pre-dinner drinks. “If the weather’s playing ball,” Eloise began, “we always start in the garden. Nothing beats a summery BBQ, or even just some nibbles and drinks outside. But the key is planning the transition.” She keeps a selection of easy-to-manage appetisers, things like bruschetta, mini quiches, and crudités with dips, so she isn’t stuck at the BBQ all evening, she can mingle and enjoy the fun. Eloise suggests setting up a drinks station outside with everything guests need to help themselves – glasses, ice, mixers, and of course, the main attraction – maybe a crisp Prosecco, a refreshing gin and tonic, or a jug of homemade lemonade. This creates a relaxed, informal atmosphere right from the start.

Orangery Transition:

So, how does she smoothly move everyone indoors? This is where the orangery works its magic. “It’s the perfect bridge between the garden and the dining room,” Eloise explained. “As the sun starts to dip or a chill creeps in, I casually suggest we move ‘into the light’ or ‘somewhere a little warmer’. The orangery feels like an extension of the garden, so it doesn’t feel like a drastic shift.”

Eloise thoughtfully places a few throws in the orangery’s seating area, just in case anyone feels a little cold and to add an extra layer of cosiness. “The best part is, it’s naturally lit, feels spacious, and looks out onto the garden – so you keep that connection to the outdoors, even when you’re inside.”

Dinner is Served:

From the orangery, it’s a short hop into the dining room. Eloise preps as much of the dinner as possible in advance. “I’m a big fan of slow-cooked dishes that can be made the day before,” she said. “That way, I can actually enjoy my own party!” Think hearty stews, lasagnes, or even a beautifully roasted joint of meat that just needs carving. She recommends setting the table well in advance, including laying out all the cutlery, glasses, and any decorative elements like candles or flowers. “A well-set table instantly elevates the occasion,” she says. “Even if the food is simple, it feels special.”

Entertainment & Games:

To maintain a relaxed atmosphere, Eloise suggests having a few easy-going games or activities on hand. “Something that appeals to all ages is ideal. A quick round of charades, or even just some background music can keep everyone entertained between courses.” She also keeps a selection of board games tucked away for after dinner, perfect for those who want to linger longer. In the garden, you could easily set up croquet or giant Jenga for some light-hearted competition during the drinks reception.

“The key is to be flexible,” Eloise stressed. “Don’t be afraid to deviate from the plan if things aren’t working. The most important thing is that everyone is having a good time, including you!”

Menu Planning & Tablescaping:

Eloise’s menu philosophy is simple: delicious, seasonal, and manageable. She opts for dishes that can be prepared ahead and require minimal fuss on the night. For tablescaping, she prefers a minimalist approach. “I like to use natural elements like flowers from the garden or candles to create a warm, inviting atmosphere. A simple linen tablecloth and some elegant glassware can also make a big difference.”

From starting with drinks and games in the garden, moving seamlessly into the orangery for pre-dinner mingling, and then finally transitioning to a beautifully set dining table, Eloise has perfected the art of the effortless elegant dinner party. And remember, planning ahead is your best friend for enjoying your own party!

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