Right, let’s have a proper chinwag about entertaining our more senior guests. I was just chewing the fat with my mate Josh the other day about this, and it got me thinking – it’s not just about throwing a good party, it’s about making sure everyone feels welcome and comfortable. I’m talking accessible, enjoyable, and downright lovely experiences for our elderly relatives and friends. It’s about creating those golden memories, isn’t it?
So, where do we even start? Well, accessibility is key, and it’s more than just ramps (although ramps are jolly important!). We were chatting about Josh’s nan, bless her, and how she loves a good family get-together but struggles a bit with steps. “The little things make all the difference,” he said. And he’s spot on.
Think about pathways first. Are they clear of clutter? No trailing wires or rogue garden gnomes ready to trip someone up? Smooth, even surfaces are best. And inside, those pesky rugs? Either secure them properly or, even better, roll them up for the occasion. Josh mentioned he uses those sticky rug pads – a lifesaver, apparently!
Then there’s seating. Stiff armchairs are a no-no. Opt for comfortable, supportive chairs, preferably with arms to help people get up and down. Scatter cushions are nice for decoration, but make sure they don’t make the seat too low. Height is key here. Josh uses some booster cushions for his grandad and places them where he knows he’ll sit ahead of time, so he doesn’t feel embarrassed when he gets there. We talked about the importance of varying seating options too – a mix of chairs and a comfy sofa means people can choose what suits them best.
And the loo? A trip to the bathroom can be a real challenge for some. Grab bars are a game-changer – especially near the toilet and in the shower if you have one available to them. A raised toilet seat can also make a huge difference. If you don’t have these permanently installed, consider temporary options. You can rent mobility aids like portable grab bars and raised toilet seats from many mobility shops. Josh reminded me that a clear, well-lit route to the bathroom is also essential. Night lights can be a godsend.
Food is another crucial area. Soft, easy-to-chew options are always appreciated. Think shepherd’s pie, slow-cooked meats, soups, and desserts like stewed fruit or rice pudding. Avoid anything too fiddly or bony. Dietary needs are also paramount. Before the event, have a quiet word with your guests or their carers to find out about any allergies or dietary restrictions. Josh always has a vegetarian option on hand for his auntie, and he makes sure everything is clearly labelled to avoid any confusion. It’s a small gesture that goes a long way.
Sensory considerations are important too. Loud music can be overwhelming, and bright, flickering lights can be disorientating. Keep the noise level down and opt for soft, warm lighting. Create a quiet space where guests can retreat if they need a break from the hustle and bustle. An orangery, if you’re lucky enough to have one, can be the perfect place for a quiet chat, filled with natural light but shielded from the elements. Josh’s neighbours converted their conservatory into an orangery, and now they’re planning all the family gatherings there! Its a bright airy space that is ideal for accommodating his more elderly relatives away from the hubub.
Planning ahead is vital. Don’t wait until the last minute to think about these things. Give yourself plenty of time to make any necessary modifications and to communicate with your guests about accessibility. Ask them about their needs and preferences – they’ll appreciate you taking the time to consider their comfort.
Remember, it’s all about creating an inclusive and welcoming atmosphere. A little bit of planning and preparation can make a world of difference to your senior guests, allowing them to relax, enjoy themselves, and create lasting memories. It’s about ensuring that everyone feels valued and cared for, and that’s what truly makes a party special.
